Young Forceps Review
Young Forceps Review
Use these Young Forceps to create an ultimate clamp on any part of the body! Serrated rubber tips on the ends are removable for a gentler clip, or leave them in place for a more intense bite and extra texture. Near the handles, use the locks to create different levels of intensity and maintain it over an extended period of time. These forceps can be used on a variety of body parts such as the nipples, labia, penis or scrotum. Photos show forceps in use after rubber tips have been removed. Sold individually.
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Door Jam Cuffs
These super-soft Velcro cuffs instantly turn any door into a bondage playground. They’re perfect for exploring some light bondage without having to permanently nail hardware into your walls and ceiling. They’re also great for traveling, since you can make an instant dungeon out of your hotel room - without the maid ever having any idea! Playful submission is the name of the game and Door Jam Cuffs is a great start toward releasing the master or servant hidden deep inside of you!
Editorial Review
If you get turned on by the idea of tying up and teasing a helpless lover with a feather, a hot strip dance, candle wax, some paddling - use your imagination here - then you’ve probably been looking for Door Jam Cuffs.
While most bondage equipment requires installing very obvious and damaging hardware into your walls or doors, these cuffs require no installation whatsoever. The set comes with two cuffs that can be easily secured to straps that are attached to a short hollow plastic tube at the end. Just lay the straps over the door, and close it. The tubing holds the tethers securely in place, and won’t damage your doors at all!
The cuffs themselves are exceptionally comfortable - even for long-lasting play sessions. They’re made of soft velour-like material, and are secured to the wearer by adjustable Velcro straps. The cuffs are extremely high quality, and can easily be detached from the tethers and used on their own.
Personally, the Door Jam Cuffs have already become one of my favorite BDSM repertoires. Couples who wish to play without all the leather, rope, and more extreme bondage gear will definitely benefit from these comfortable functional cuffs that still allow for some severe “practice of restraint.”
Japanese Drip Candles
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Hot wax play is a form of sensation play and is popular with many people in the BDSM lifestyle. Sensation refers to temperature play (hot/cold) but can also be a part of pain play. Most types of wax candles used in wax play will have a stingy hot effect when dripped onto the skin. The type of wax that a candle is made out of depends on how hot the wax will get.
I admit I have a bit of a wax play fetish which may have began with melting my crayons down as a kid in hot water and dipping my hands into the bucket to make wax gloves. Since then I have always had the urge to play with candle wax, poking my fingers into it, pouring it on my skin and peeling it off. By far, though, I enjoy waxing a willing victim who enjoys it as much or more than I do.
Japanese Drip Candles by Doc Johnson burn about the same temperature as paraffin wax candles which is what most people use for wax play. Although called sensation or sensual play, wax play can be very painful depending on your tolerance to heat. These are not soy massage candles that are used for warm massages. They get hot and can burn if not played with carefully and correctly.
One thing I noticed that was strange about them is that they are slightly scented. You are not supposed to use scented candles with wax play (but I did) and I didn’t find them any hotter than my emergency white paraffin candles. In fact, the emergency candles seemed much hotter to me. Also the color of the candle is supposed to make a difference, but I didn’t notice any difference in the three different colors (Red, Purple and Black). I also used another red candle of mine to see if there was a difference, but didn’t notice it.
Preparing for Wax Play
To prepare for wax play you should put out an old sheet or shower curtain where your victim is going to lay to protect your furniture from spills. Have a bucket of cold water nearby (and ice) in case of an emergency fire, or to play with varying hot/cold sensations. You should negotiate with your victim/bottom on where you will be applying the wax: back, front, ass, chest/breasts, or genitals. Give your victim a safe word especially if they haven’t tried wax play before. One person’s pleasure can be another person’s pain. If your victim is excessively hairy, they may want to shave beforehand or have their hair painfully waxed off afterwards. Their choice.
Warm Up
You can prepare your victim by applying massage oil or sunscreen to their body where you are going to apply the wax. This will make the wax easier to remove later, prevent it from sticking to fine body hair and in the case of sunscreen it will protect against burns. You can also bind and blindfold the victim to stop them from squirming away from the wax and to add more tension to the scene, as they never know when a hot drop is going to hit them.
You can begin by applying a low melt soy candle to “warm” them up. As mentioned these don’t burn but are very sensual. You can then begin to alternative the low melt soy candle with the stingier Japanese Drip Candle. Before applying the Japanese Drip Candle to your victim, first check the temperature on your own wrist, so you can gage the heat and how far away to drip the candle from. The higher away the candle is, the less it stings/burns. These candles are too large for ordinary candles holders, so I used a large tin can to hold mine in while alternating.
Try various types of dripping, dibbling and pouring of the wax. The more the wax begins to coat a certain area, the less it stings. Different areas of the body will be more sensitive than others, especially the nipples, undersides of breasts, and genitalia. Wax play should not burn although it will leave red marks on the skin that will fade in a few hours. Never drip wax on the face as it is very sensitive and you could leave scars. It is fun to alternate wax play with other forms of sensation play to keep your victim off guard, add an element of surprise, and give them a break from the pain so they can stand it longer and it is more pleasurable. Try using ice, or a Wartenberg wheel, or even just general groping, slapping, biting or scratching.
Once you have your victim coated, then you can play with the wax by scraping it off with your fingernails if you have them, or trying “pretend” knife play. Obviously, be careful with the knife. You are supposed to be scraping off the wax, not cutting your victim (although they don’t have to know this). The remainder of wax can be removed with more mineral oil (or any vegetable or massage oil will work as well).
Japanese Drip Candles do get hot, although no hotter than regular paraffin wax in my opinion. So for those of you thinking this is going to be a day at the beach, please put those thoughts aside. If you don’t enjoy stingy, smoldering pain, you will not like wax play. If you do enjoy regular wax play you will enjoy these as they are fun to play with and you can make some nice designs with the different colors on your victim if you have a bit of an artistic streak. As with any fire/pain play, play safe and be careful. Remember these are not massage candles and that is not their intended use.
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Feeldoe - The best lesbian sex toy ever
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Designed by a woman for a woman, the Feeldoe strapless strap-on dildo was expressly created to complement the natural contours of a woman’s vagina. Chiefly popular for its shaft curves, natural bends, stimulating indentations and perfect size, the Feeldoe is the world’s most innovative strapless strap-on sex toy, similar to the widely popular Share in terms of pleasure-producing capabilities.
Maximization of your sexual pleasure might seem difficult with other dildos, but traditionally designed dildos are nothing like the fabulous Feeldoe sex toy. First, the Feeldoe can be used for solo masturbation or as a strapless strap-on dildo. So you can make this a sexy ingredient in your alone time, titillating yourself, or you can invite your lover to share in the passion, pleasure, and action. In whichever situation you wish to play with the Feeldoe, you can expect quality internal arousal of your sensitive hot spots.
How does it work for couples? There are two insertable dildo shafts - one for the wearer (the strapless strap-on), the other for the person penetrated (traditional dildo). The wearer gently inserts the vertical dildo, grabbing the shaft with her PC muscles. Due to the vertical dildo’s egg-shaped head, the wearer experiences a “full” feeling, eliminating the need for straps, and enjoys smooth G-Spot stimulation while penetrating her female lover. Dildo stability, greater control, and pleasure are afforded to both aroused partners during their lovemaking.
After the vertical dildo is firmly inside of the wearer’s vagina, the horizontal dildo is ready for extreme penetration and erotic dildo play. The wearer uses the horizontal dildo to penetrate her lover, and the shaft’s gradual curve creates direct G-Spot stimulation that straight shafts struggle to accomplish. The base features three distinct ridges that aim to provide titillating clitoral massage for the wearer. Each Feeldoe includes a powerful vibrating bullet that slides into the base’s bottom, so both individuals experience vibratory stimulation in conjunction with superior texture and size.
Attention: The Feeldoe has largely been advertised a toy for female lovers, and while it is the perfect sex toy for female-to-female stimulation, all women and male-to-female couples benefit from playing with the Feeldoe sex toy. And since this dildo is actually two dildos in one, women can use either the vertical or the horizontal dildo shaft for stimulation since both are designed to create different internal sensations. The vertical dildo shaft can also be a useful tool for gripping. The Feeldoe is extremely versatile, so if you can imagine it, the Feeldoe sex toy can probably do it. Also, consider the new Share as an alternative - both in price and performance.
Hunk of the week
Here is this weeks hunk of the week
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Fleshlight Liberator Make The Fleshlight Even Better
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Now, we all like sticking our dicks into Fleshlights—but actually having to hold the damn thing can be pretty awkward (not to mention exhausting). But those days are over, thanks to the Liberator!
The famed sex furniture company has just teamed up with Fleshlight to offer the “Fleshlight Mount,” a device which allows you to… mount your Fleshlight. Your dreams of effortless orgasm has finally be a reality.
Dildos 101
A Brief Dildo History
The word Dildo comes from a Latin word meaning to “open wide”. In earlier cultures where sex was not quite as taboo as it is today, dildos held quite an honored place. In ancient Greece around the third century B.C. the city of Miletus was a major manufacturer of what was known as olisbos. Made of wood or padded leather, the lube of choice in those days was olive oil, which was liberally applied to them before use. A play of the time has two women discussing the importance of fine craftsmanship in such devices. In ancient China, dildos were made of wood, jade, and ivory. Unripened bananas have been commonly used in Arab and Polynesian countries. Dildos are represented throughout history in erotic painting, and were often quite beautifully designed, being works of art themselves.
Besides use for pleasure, dildos were often used in deflowering ceremonies. In some cases, dildos were attached to statues, as in the case of Priapus, a Greek god of Ancient Greece whose erect stone statue was used to pierce the hymen of young aristocratic women to better prepare them for marriage.
Basic Dildo Tips
Keeping them clean is important, and the same info in our Vibrator section applies in terms of cleaning and the importance of using lube.
Some dildos are very soft and pliable, but exercise care with the more rigid ones. Take your time with them and insert them slowly, making sure that they are not pushing to hard in the wrong angle.
There are realistic dildos molded and colored very accurately to resemble the real thing. Of course, you don’t have to have one that looks like a penis. In fact, Kris thinks that penis shaped dildos are silly looking, a sort of Bobbit experience. Fortunately, there are different types available, with interesting shapes beyond the traditional penis.
The simplest type of dildo is made from a cucumber or a zucchini. They can be warmed a little beforehand in the microwave (emphasis on a little). Inexpensive and arguably tasty, if you find one that is the perfect size, unlike commercial dildos, its not going to keep very long.
Dildos are now made from a wide variety of materials. Vinyl is one of the most common materials, as it is lightweight and non-porous. There are also a lot of new materials that we like a lot, such as the Puregel and other similar types.
Poorly made toys can be spotted by looking for bubbles in the plastic or rubber. These air bubbles near the surface can create little pits. This is due to pouring the second layer before the first has cooled, and these tend not to hold up as well. There are clear dildos that have bubbles on purpose to create a “champagne effect”, but the key is to make sure none of these bubbles are near the surface where they can break open.
Choosing a size depends largely on what type of penetration you like. A huge dildo may look appealing, but the reality of having something that large inside you may not be as much fun as you imagined. Experiment and learn a little about yourself and what you like before making your purchase.
To determine what thickness you prefer, use the finger test. You can measure your own fingers to get a more exact size, but generally, the pinkie and the ring finger together are about 1 1/4″ wide, while the index and middle finger side by side are about 1 1/2″ wide. The pinkie, ring, and middle fingers together are about 2″ wide, while the index, middle and ring finger together are about 2 1/4″ wide. By inserting various sets of fingers, you can get a better idea of what width you most enjoy. When looking at a toy in a store that has no measurements, you can hold your fingers up to it to get an idea if it is in the neighborhood of what you like.
Another important consideration is whether the dildo will be used by you or by someone else using it on you. In general, what may feel good when you have the power may not feel as good when someone else is steering. In many cases, a slightly smaller size is preferable when you turn over the reigns.
Choosing a length depends upon what you like. If you like deeper penetration, go with the 8″ size. If something a little less filling is more to your taste, or if you are interested in anal stimulation, you might consider the 6″ version. Serious size queens might consider even longer models. If using with a harness, remember that you need a little extra length as some of it is lost in the harness itself.
Although we have never heard first hand of any problems, we think it is a good idea to avoid dildos that have the squirmy or bendable feature. In general, they just have a wire inside, and we have heard that it is possible for this wire to break through the toy. That would certainly not be comfortable. A newer type of bendable dildo has a plastic vertebrae, and while a little more expensive, this approach is a better way to go.
One consideration with all dildos is whether it has a base or not. If it does not, you probably will not be able to use it with a dildo harness. Dildos without bases are also a little more difficult to grip.
There are several types of dildos. The most common are what are known as natural or realistic dildos. These have been molded to resemble a real penis as much as possible. Some are plain, while others have balls attached. Except for a few that are hand colored, most only vaguely resemble real skin. There are even some that are molded to look exactly like a penis but come in soft clear jelly like materials.
A lot of dildos are not designed to be exact replicas of actual penises, and I prefer them that way. A disembodied cock is just not that big a thrill to me. There are a lot of interesting shapes available that provide for a variety of different sensations.
Some are smooth, and some are molded into interesting shapes with ridges or other features. Most are made from a soft jelly like material that is very pliant.
The Dildo To Help Improve Sex Within The Couple - Choosing a Jelly Rubber Dildo
Self-pleasuring or mutual masturbation can be even more gratifying with the use of sex toys and the dildo is one sex toy that really can make life more fun. There are quite a few different dildos on the market and it can be hard to figure out which one maybe the best for you.
It is with this in mind that a jelly rubber love aid could be the ideal fit for the first time user because they are affordable and afford you to experiment with out burning a hole in your pocket. The jelly rubber dildo is a good all round love aid.
At the cheaper end of the market the jelly rubber dildo does come in a wide range of colours, shapes and sizes. They do have their fans who love the resilient bouncy feel to them.
The only real positive to jelly rubber love aid is that they are inexpensive to purchase. It means that they are then great for experimentation so that a woman can find out what she needs from a dildo regarding shape and size before purchasing an expensive dildo that isn’t right and obviously can’t be returned.
It must be noted that jelly sex toys being made from inferior quality means that some to contain phthalates which is a chemical that has been linked to health problems in other products and happenstances. It is with this in mind that it is recommended that you use a latex condom when using a rubber jelly dildo.
It is advisable not to use oil based lubricants when using rubber jelly dildos because this may well cause damage to the sex toy. Instead it is better to use either a water or silicone based lubricant.
Dildos can really work to improve sex for the both couples in a relationship or just help the individual get the most from self pleasure.
There are many dildos on the market and with the choice of material, colours and shapes being vast. The silicone and Cyberskin dildo are a at the top end of the dildo market in terms of price and it maybe advisable for first time dildo users to experiment with cheaper dildo options before splashing out on an expensive toy.
The cheapest are usually those made of jelly rubber and start at around $10. This way you can find out what shape and size is the most suitable before moving onto more expensive products.
Head O State Obama Dildo - Head O State Obama Dildo
obama dildo
I’d like to thank Sex Toys for the opportunity to review the new Obama dildo. You may not have heard about it before, but you have now. Whether you regard it as an interestingly shaped toy to be used and enjoyed, or as a funny piece of Obama memorabilia to be used as a conversation piece atop your coffee table, this toy is definitely worth a second look. Mr. Obama is 7 1/2 inches tall and nearly two inches in diameter, and he comes in two colors, Democratic Blue and Presidential Gold.
I happened across the Obama dildo one day while he giving a speech to a colorful crowd that had gathered. He has a good head on his shoulders, attractive features and a snazzy suit. Standing tall, you could feel the energy that his words brought to those in attendance. People leapt to their feet and flared bases, waving their home made signs, applauding and chanting their catch-phrases; “GOBAMA,” and “Yes, we can! (orgasm).” This is a new era of responsibility for your own pleasure. No one is just going to give you all the orgasms you could ever want, you need to be responsible for your own orgasms. You need to make yourself feel good, and not rely on others to make it happen. ‘Yes, we can!’ the crowd echoed; the time has come to cum, and those in attendance have bravely risen to the occasion.
As sometimes happens when political figures come and talk to smaller communities, Mr. Obama was asked to pose for a picture holding Lily, Ella’s baby. Whether for good luck or bragging rights, this proud mom is tickled to have this picture of her daughter held by the most influential dildo the nation has seen in years. Certainly impressive, Mr. Obama holds Lily seemingly without the use of hands! It seems he’s picked up some tricks on the campaign trail.
Now, let’s get serious about this. What we have here is a dildo shaped like a political figure; our current president. I agree with you, it’s pretty inappropriate and probably in poor taste, but it’s SO FUNNY. You ask “how could you?” I ask “How could I not have?” I simply couldn’t resist. I’ve always said, I’ll try anything that I find amusing.
It should be noted that this toy is made in the USA! Also, it’s made from TPR, or thermoplastic rubber, which is pthalate free. TPR may well be pthalate free, but let me say that the Obama dildo smells really chemically. TPR is porous, which means it cannot be fully disinfected, so you should use a condom when playing with Mr. Obama, both to reduce bacteria buildup on the toy and to keep potential chemicals from getting into your body. It’s important to remember that if a toy smells bad, there’s a chemical seeping out of it.
I’ll have you know that I did actually try this toy out. Yes, I tried it. I don’t know if this means I have no morals, or that I’m actually a godless heathen, but I tried it and I liked it. It felt good, and it was nice and girthy, but I can’t say I’ll be using it again any time soon. It was a little disturbing to use, and I had to really focus on NOT thinking about Obama while I used it, which was challenging.
So that brings us to the end of this review. I approve of this dildo because it’s funny, if a bit horrifying. I have always had this thing about dildos personified, and the white boards near my dorm room always had some kind of creepy personified penis walking about on its balls, so it only follows that I should review a dildo like this one. If you want something to traumatize your friends with, to display on your bookshelf, or to use despite your modest sensibilities, then this might just be the dildo for you. Just thank the powers that be that no one ever made a Bush dildo.
Choose the perfect dildo
Huge dildos, realistic dildos, limp dildos, jelly dildos, French dildos,
barrel dildos, mega dong dildos, vibrating dildos, metal dildos. Whatever you want, we’re packing it!
Want the perfect penis but not necessarily the man it’s attached to? Then dildos are the way to go. They may be one of the simplest sex toys on the market, but with a little imagination you can work yourself into a lather in no time!
If you’re all about the thrust rather than relying on a battery-operated vibe to do the work for you, dildos will give your technique a thorough workout. But before you get down with your dildo, think about the material you want, the size and girth you prefer and any ’special features’ such as ribbed or contoured dildos.
Size matters
When purchasing your first dildo, it’s probably best to go for a small, smooth dildo to get used to handling and thrusting it. The Heavy Metal 5-inch dildo is an ideal introduction to the world of dildos, with its smooth and sleek shaft that feels incredible when chilled in the fridge for 10 minutes before use. It also features a ribbed handle for a better grip.
You should also bear in mind that when you start off using dildos, it’s probably best to stick with those of average girth until you become accustomed to the wider dildos. Most dildos range in girth from 1-3 inches, or in some cases much more, but an acrylic dildo such as the Crystal Lover provides a sensual amount that won’t make you feel uncomfortable.
If, on the other hand, you want your dildo as fat and long as they come, the 3 Bangs For Your Butt Mega Dildo stands proud at 11.5-inches and the Homo Gigantus Giant Dildo lives up to its name at 15 inches, while the Fat Man Mega Dong is as wide as they come.
Why not take a look at our size guide, which will let you compare and contrast between a number of our more popular vibrators but will also give you an idea of relative size in the dildo world.
Different strokes for different folks
Finishes, materials and contours make a massive difference to the results delivered by your dildo. The Man In A Barrel large dildo, for example, not only weighs in at a sizeable 8.5 inches but has a moulded head for initial vaginal stimulation followed by a fat ‘barrel’ to satisfy you deep down.
Smooth, metal or glass dildos are perfect for beginners or for those who like uncomplicated, sleek dildo sex, but why not go that little bit further with a realistic dildo? If you’ve fantasised about being pummeled by a well-hung porn star, check out the Jeff Stryker dildo. This erect cock dildo was modeled on the man himself and sports a striking 10 inches.
Maybe the idea of a plastic, acrylic or silicone dildo puts you off? Well, the Cyberskin Realistic 8-inch Cock feels so damn good that you probably wouldn’t be able to tell the difference if your eyes were closed and your dildo-fest was being controlled by someone else. And if it’s something cushioned you’re after, bounce around on the Single Dildo Pleasure Pillow and thrust away without damaging your naughty bits.
The right dildo shape for you
We’ve talked about how smooth dildos make for sleek, simple penetration and how realistic dils do the business in place of a real cock, but what if you want something a bit more erotic? Curved dildos are the real deal when it comes to hitting your G-spot bang on. Because of their angled heads, these clever dildos get to your sweet spot in double-quick time.
But if you yearn for some rigorous shaft action for your vaginal walls, choose a fat dildo with a wider mid-section, such as the Tantus Diva Silicone Dildo, for pleasure in all the right places. Also, twisted, contoured or ’special feature’ dildos, such as the Love Labs Two-Way Clear Glass Dildo or Double Juicer Double Dong - for partner play or solo fun in both holes - will satiate your wildest dildo fantasies.
Don’t forget the lube!
Simple as they may be to use, you should never play with a dildo, however big or small, unless you’re well lubed-up. We love dildo-friendly lubricants, such as ID Pleasure Lube and Aquaglide Original Lubricant, so lather up and get thrusting!
